A friend's son showed me this site and it's a great way to meet people in your area. The weird thing about it is that they put up your pic to be rated by others. Kind of different...but you can only contact people if you both click on each other so it's a good way to weed people out, and you don't have to have your pic rated...I am just curious to get random people's opinions on me, because of the occasional bouts of low self esteem. I'm only a 6.8! LOL! At least I'm not a 2! Anyway, it sounded rather shallow, but I thought I would check it out...and it's kind of addictive-maybe because I don't really have any male friends around here, and I miss that. It's free to join, but you do have to pay to upgrade to e-mail status..but you can send short pre-prepared notes for free. As long as one person in a match is a member, you can talk for free. And to upgrade is only like 6 bucks a month-no committment-so it's actually way cheaper than other dating sites. Anyway,if you're bored and want to check it out, my link is: My site at HOT or NOT Please take a minute, it's free and you would be helping someone with their self-esteem! HA-HA, Just kidding, but it is a fascinating site in a weird way....I think because it's something new. That ADD is kicking in again!